A couple is simply a pair of people who identify themselves in terms of belonging together, trusting one another, and having a unique relationship together.
Being a couple is a lovely experience. You get to go out together and have lots of fun. To me, a successful couple is one that builds a great relationship together.
The happiest couples on earth never have the same character but they usually have the best understanding of their differences and that makes their marriage work. I believe that the couples who are meant to be, are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart, and yet they come out even stronger than they were before the trials.
It does not matter so much those little misunderstandings so far it is done healthily and it is not life-threatening. It becomes a big deal when either of the parties feels unsafe either physically or mentally in the relationship. At this point, a decision to involve a marriage counselor will be appropriate.
Most times, I tell people that no matter what they go through, they should learn to treat each other with love and respect. This could help resolve issues in a relationship without one party holding grudges which might build-up to become unhealthy and unresolved anger. It’s always fair to treat each other with respect. Couples need to be careful what they say to each other when they are angry because it’s not always easy to take those words back.
True love they say is about growing as a couple, learning about each other, and never giving up on each other no matter what. Do your best.
Congratulations to great couples out there. Thumbs up to you guys, ‘coz it’s not as rosy as it seems.